Advent.
I’ll be the first one to admit that it is a “churchy” word. You probably don’t hear it outside of “church world”. Afterall, the word, “advent” has its roots in the Roman Catholic tradition derived from the Latin word, “adventus” which literally means “coming”. Putting “advent” in its right place, it is a “churchy” word that is often connected to getting ready for the coming of Jesus at Christmastime. So, we plan parties, decorate homes, prepare for church services, and listen to carols. But, whether you grew up with the word, “advent” or you’re just learning about it - I want to invite you to consider how the first Christians thought about and practiced advent. They didn’t see advent as manger scenes, charcuterie boards, Amazon lists, and Pentatonix on Spotify, but rather looking for Jesus to return (Matthew 24:36, John 14:3, 1 Thessalonians 5:2, Revelation 22:7). Simply put, advent was about their hearts - not about their calendar. They practiced silence. Diligently looking. Waiting well. So, over the next three weeks of blogs, I’m going to help us dive into silence, looking, and waiting… not for Jesus in a manger, but for Jesus coming back and making all things new (Revelation 21:5). So, share this blog with family and friends as we rest in silence to hear God speak through prayer. Look diligently for ordinary things that point to Jesus’ presence today and his coming in the future. And, wait well as we are patient - not jumping to conclusions, but resting in God’s Word. Sure, in this season of “advent”, let’s continue to get ready for the coming of Jesus at Christmas. Hang lights. Sing carols. Go to church. Let’s also prepare our hearts for the coming of Jesus - whenever that will be. Jesus has come. Jesus is risen. Jesus will come again. Reflection Questions
From time to time, we all find ourselves in a hot mess. . . especially during the Christmas holidays. The truth is, God didn’t create us or redeem us to be a hot mess. God has created us in His image (Genesis 1-2) which means that we are more complex than we could ever imagine. We have emotions that feel brokenness and wholeness. We have curious minds that wonder and seek understanding (“why?”). We have lives that ache and long for connection. So, in all of this beautiful complexity that we can humanity, here are three things God gives us permission to do when you’re in a hot mess this holiday season (and anytime!). You have permission to ugly cry. It’s OK for ugly tears and laughing until your side hurts to co-exist. Take a note from Joy and Sadness, themselves. God gives us both joy and sadness to feel and to own. So, cry away. Your tears are given by God to express your sadness just as much as your giggles are given by God to express your joy. You have permission to care for yourself. I was recently reminded that in moments of crisis and trauma, before tending to others, you must first care for yourself. Here is what caring for yourself might look like:
Bethany Dearborn Hiser says “taking care of ourselves is essential for our well-being as beloved children of God, allowing us to be effective and resilient, loving people instead of using those we serve to support or enhance our own sense of worth”. You can check out Bethany’s entire article from Christianity Today, here. You have permission to find your way back to Jesus. Between the hot messes and ugly tears combined with all the feels, it’s easy to lose sight of Jesus. The good news is that Jesus has never lost sight of you. These five responses may help you as you find your way back to Jesus:
What have you found helpful when you're in a hot mess during the Christmas holiday season? Let me know at [email protected]. Hi Friends!
I want to share an update regarding the Environmental Safety issues at Main Campus and how we are moving forward. First, great news about this week’s Sunday Worship! We plan to gather for Sunday Worship on-site at 8:00, 9:30, and 11:00am and online at 8:00, and 9:30am! Here’s what to expect Sunday: West Bathrooms by the chapel are closed. Public bathrooms can be found in the following locations:
Otherwise, this Sunday will feel pretty “normal.”
What's happened so far this week… On Monday, a Professional Abatement Team (PAT) isolated the facility areas compromised by the Environmental Safety Issues and began “cleaning the air.” On Wednesday, the PAT began remediating the environmental hazards, removing carpet, sheetrock, and other contaminated items that cannot be cleaned over the next three days. They will also attempt to clean as many of the free-standing items located in the affected areas as possible. After everything is cleaned, the basement will most likely be exclusively used for utility access. Furthermore, we are looking at installing groundwater control solutions to prevent future issues. A separate and related water issue was discovered inside the wall of the West Bathrooms (by the Chapel). This specific situation also contributed significantly to the overall environmental safety of the facility. We will know more about the extent of remediation and reconstruction necessary for the West Bathrooms later this week. Our Professional Abatement Team continues to remediate the environmental hazards in the affected areas of our Main Campus Facility. Thanks in advance for helping make Our Savior a place where all people can belong, gather, connect, serve, and be sent to love God, love people, and live like Jesus! Between now and Sunday, here’s how you can pray with us:
See you Sunday… on-site or online! Love you! Pastor Tim I want to share with you some really important news about what ministry may look like for you, this week.
Yesterday, we discovered environmental hazards related to mold, mildew, and water which severely limit the use of our Main Campus facility. As always, if you feel ill or are experiencing respiratory challenges, please consult a medical professional. As a result, it has been recommended that for the good and safety of the general public that we not gather at the Main Campus facility until the environmental safety issues have been isolated. We expect that these issues will be isolated by the middle of next week. After the issues have been isolated, we may be able to use parts of Main Campus (lobby, worship center) while still isolating the areas of the facility that need to be remediated. Here is what you need to know this week:
Thanks for your ongoing prayers over this matter as it is resolved with God's good gifts of skilled people, prayers, resources, and finances. Even during this unique upcoming week of ministry together, you and I will continue to love God, love people, and live like Jesus. I have no doubt that Jesus is with us right here… right now. I’ll see you Sunday, online! Love you! Pastor Tim Do stories of life change inspire you?
Well, here is some good news to brighten your day! Thanks to the generosity of ordinary people like you...
Remember when the world gets darker, Jesus shines brighter in and through you. Learn more and let's continue loving God, loving people, and living like Jesus when it comes to helping hungry people in our own communities at oslc.com/b4k. The COVID-19 pandemic is creating an unprecedented rise in mental health and substance use issues, leaving many of us asking how we can better support our friends and loved ones.
In June, I completed my training and certification to become a Mental Health First Aid Instructor and I'm excited to lead an online training on November 13, 2021 from 9am - 3pm, Online The course offers relevant and powerful training and resources you need to answer questions and have conversations about mental health. You will leave with a broader understanding of the mental health crisis we face and how together we can be helpful as a community and as individuals. You can register at oslc.com/mhfa or you can give our office a call at 253.531.2112. Mental Health First Aid, an international, evidence-based program that teaches people to identify, understand and respond to signs and symptoms of mental health and substance use challenges. I think you’ll find it’s an extremely helpful program that’s well worth your time and investment. Love you! All fall and into the spring, we want to make disciples who love God, love people, and live like Jesus by:
So, I want to take a moment and share three points of unity that are fostering a culture of care and belonging as we embrace being a church (a people!) both onsite and online. Honor What do you do when everybody has a preference? When it comes to wearing face coverings, each of us has feelings, reasonings, and understandings of what they do and what they mean. ...and that's normal and very much OK. Right now, perhaps for reasons only God really knows, the State of Washington requires all people regardless of vaccination status to wear a face covering while in public spaces. As Jesus followers, we choose to come together in unity not over our preference of wearing face coverings, but in the unity of faith which honors the authorities God has placed in our lives (Romans 13, 1 Timothy 2:2). We also choose to honor each other's preferences over our own (Philippians 2) by wearing a face covering while on-campus. If you need a mask, we have plenty onsite as you enter any of our campus facilities. Where else do you see honor promoting unity in your life? "Be" the Church The unified church is seen wherever people are gathered together around God’s Word and promises - wherever they are. Jesus followers are never satisfied with only “going” to church onsite or online - we want to “be” the church everywhere we go. That’s why most everything we do onsite can be translated into an online or at-home experience. For example, we worship as "be" one united church in how we worship.
Another example of "being" the united church is Faith in Action. While the context or location of faith in action may change, you are choosing to be united as once church by living generously and living your life on mission - wherever you are... which happens onsite when people gather for a variety of service projects and can also happen right where you are - with the people in your life (even those who may not know Jesus or go to church).
You may know something your local neighborhood needs - you can give Kristi a call or send her an email at [email protected] to figure out how best you and some friends can make things happen. That’s faith in action. While the context or location of faith in action may change, you are choosing to be united as once church by living generously and living your life on mission - wherever you are. One last example: We grow in unity through Youth and Adult Life Groups and Bible Studies which help you become the intergenerational body of Christ. While some groups meet onsite, others find growth opportunities in their homes, neighborhoods, workplaces, and wherever else they find themselves.
Again, Jesus’ church is wherever people are gathered around God’s Word and promises. That’s why most everything we do onsite can be translated into an online or at-home experience - right where you are. Care We are united in our care for each other and our community. This unity flows from the love of Jesus who cares for each of us - right where we are.
So, let's continue to be unified in honoring others, "being the church", and caring for each other as we move into October and November - onsite... online... right where we are. I’m praying that you stay healthy and that together we continue to make disciples who love God, love people, and live like Jesus - everywhere. Love you! Would you agree that human relationships were complicated - even before COVID?
Expectations. Preferences. Feelings. Insecurities. Fear. Personal Histories. Past Experiences. Hopes. Dreams. Passions. Convictions. And then there are beliefs about mandates, economics, politics, and religion - whew! If you put all of this together, even the most simple person can become complicated. Add another human with the same complexities into the mix and we discover that some of the most significant earthly relationships we may ever have - our spouses and significant others, can be incredibly complicated. Here are three ways you can build a deeper and stronger bond with anybody - especially your spouse or significant other in this complicated time and life. 1. Embrace your fear. Connecting with ourselves on an emotional level is an important place to begin building deeper and stronger bonds with other human beings. Relationships are scary. We become exposed, known, and vulnerable. We so want to be seen, heard, and belong. At the same time, we’re afraid of rejection and being alone with our thoughts and selves. That’s why isolation is such torture. You can begin building a deeper and stronger bond with someone by saying it’s OK for you to feel the need for love and feel the fear of being hurt, rejected, and alone if it doesn’t work out. Jesus reminds us that He is always with us (Matthew 28:19-20) and that we are never alone (Romans 8:31-39) - which means we can be wrong without the fear of rejection from God or the grace of others. 2. Learn to dance. Right after we were married, Beth and I gave ballroom dancing a go. She excelled at it. I have two left feet. The point is, we learned the awkward moves together. She was better than me and I had to swallow my pride of looking foolish and messing up and trust her lead. In our relationships, at times we need to trust each other’s lead because the other person has insight that we need to hear and consider or we have two left feet and need to simply learn something from the other person. I remember that in order to learn the moves, I had to just be quiet and move with her. . . which required trusting that she knew the moves (which she did). This principle helped us both on the dance floor and in our marriage. As Jesus followers, we are given both the example and power to not live in our own pride, but trust in both the Lord and the grace God gives to each person. There are certainly situations where sin has broken trust and amplifies pride to the point where we need much more than a dance instructor. Realizing that there are people all around us who want to help us dance together is a huge confidence booster to say, “let’s get help” and continue dancing. 3. Practice Jesus-Centered Empathy Right now, our culture is all about empathy. And rightfully so - we need more of it! Brene Brown defines empathy as “connecting with people so we know we're not alone when we're in struggle. Empathy is a way to connect to the emotion another person is experiencing; it doesn't require that we have experienced the same situation they are going through” (BreneBrown.com). Here’s something to consider - human empathy alone may connect you with someone else’s emotion in a particular moment or situation. It’s needed. And it’s a way that God has created us to be in common unity (community) with each other. However, human empathy only provides a greater human experience. In other words, we can only empathize to the point of where our human emotions allow us to go. That’s Human-Centered Empathy. It’s good and necessary. And it’s incomplete by itself. Jesus-Centered Empathy places Jesus (the human of all humans) as our shared empathizer - not only ourselves.
When Jesus centers our empathy for each other, we can grow deeper and stronger beyond ourselves - more like Jesus. I think that deeper and stronger bonds or relationships with other people are challenged when overwhelming emotions take over our thoughts, words, and actions. This is why we admit that “we have sinned in our thoughts, words, deeds and cannot free ourselves”. Asking God to “forgive us, renew us, and lead us so that we may delight in Your will and walk in Your ways” to the glory of God and the blessing of others is a wonderful place to begin building deeper and stronger bonds with anybody. Why? Because the strongest and deepest bond that we share with each other is the bond of peace through the unity of the Spirit which we have in one Lord, one faith, and one baptism - one forgiveness, one hope, and one source of truth and love (Ephesians 4). Do you find yourself making assumptions about people, places, situations, and circumstances?
"Judging a book by its cover" or drawing conclusions on little (if any) factual information is dangerous stuff. I'm so glad that Jesus didn't draw an assumption about me (or you) and acted upon it. Instead, Jesus sees all of the facts and lives in reality and hope - not the fear that comes from uncertainty or making a judgment based on a sliver of information.
Here are three ways we... or, I can get beyond personal assumptions and love people like Jesus loves me.
Ultimately, Jesus leads us beyond our assumptions. He is not only the model - He is the only One who can judge... and He was judged... for us! The only One in the entire universe who could make an assumption about us chose instead of making an assumption based on half-truths and partial facts, chose to love us unconditionally. Here's the point: whether it's giving people the benefit of the doubt, praying for others instead of judging them, or choosing peace over war - Jesus' Spirit is the source of our power when it comes to living this out. How has Jesus taught you to go beyond making assumptions like He did for you? Drop me an email and let me know. Love you! The leaves are turning. School is starting. Traffic is increasing. The Fair is swinging. Football games on my TV are streaming.
Fall is here. It might be autumn outside, but what season is it in your soul? I want to share four seasons your soul might be in - and Jesus’ promise for you in the midst of it. Anxiety Martin Luther once said, “I spent more than a week in death and hell. My entire body was in pain, and I still tremble. Completely abandoned by Christ, I labored under the vacillations and the storms of desperation and blasphemy against God.” That might be the season your soul is in right now. Pain. Fearful. Shaking. Feeling abandoned by people and God. Desperate and Depressed. Here’s some great news for those in the season of anxiety: Jesus is with you!
Distress The brokenness of our world and our lives weighs heavy on our souls. God’s Spirit who lives in us knows that this world is temporary… and that God’s world is eternal. Could that be one of the reasons we experience seasons of heartbreak, anguish, and suffering? We see people who are innocent, hurt. People who are oppressed, abused. People who try their hardest to do the right thing, punished. Injustice, suffering, and oppression weighs heavy on us. And if you’re in a season where your soul is just heavy, Jesus is here to encourage you.
Restoration There are seasons when our soul is working hard to restore that which has been lost. Whether it’s a relationship that seems to be on the mend, something you have felt God has been calling you toward gaining traction, or you simply feel like your relationship with God is on a growth curve - you’re in the process of being restored. This is an exciting season! My encouragement is to remember the words of Simon Peter: “Lord, to whom shall we go? You have the words of eternal life” (John 6:68). And, trust whatever God is restoring in and through you is God’s work for His glory and He wants you to use it to love and bless the people around you.
Joy Need I say more? Sometimes, we find ourselves in times when our soul is content and happy.
This is God’s work, too. . . His work of giving you a new heart and spirit.
It doesn’t mean there aren’t challenges. However, it does mean that God is growing you up.
For sure, there are more… What other seasons of the soul have you experienced? Drop me an email at [email protected] and let me know. Let’s end with some hope: in every season of the soul, God is with us and wants to grow us up. Through every season of our lives and souls, we are being stretched, strengthened, and sustained by Jesus. So, let us fix our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of our faith, who for the joy set before him endured the cross, scorning its shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God. (Hebrews 12:2) Indeed, walking with Jesus through every season of life and faith with others is worth it - wherever you are! Love you! |
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